Thursday, January 13, 2011

#19: eat gilato in Italy

# 11: Festival of holi

# 60: Ghost Ride The Whip.

I do not have actual documentation of when this happened, and after telling my mom that I had crossed this one off my list, and her not knowing what it was, and me telling her "look it up on you tube..... and don't be mad" and her watching this video.... I am not allowed to do it anymore.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

This is an experiment...

...and you are part of it.

When I first enrolled in college, I was a business major; after two semesters I realized that I had made a terrible mistake.  Even though my parents and those who help and support me through this period of my life probably wish that I had made that realization a bit earlier, I would never have learned the following if I had:

The only thing that I remember from my time as a business student is one of my professors standing up in the front of the classroom and telling us "you are never going to grow unless you push yourself out of your comfort zone."  Despite the unused credits and wasted tuition I feel like that misguided time was worst it because of that one sentence and the impact it has made on my life. I know that it, paired with a challenge to do one thing each day that scares you, has helped me to take action in many moments of indecision and self-doubt and I have seen growth I have made because of it.

The truth is that at the end of the day the world is going to keep spinning, you are going to make it to see tomorrow, and the people who care about you are still going to be there.  I'd rather go to bed knowing I made a mistake than wondering 'what if?'.  At least a mistake is an opportunity to learn.

Over the course of my college experience so far--I am still here, just with a new major--I have had a lot of really amazing experiences that have helped me become the person I am and have taught me to be happy with the person I am becoming.  I've learn a lot about love, trust, relationships, and life.  I've had days and--unfortunately--weeks slip away from me in a blur I can barely even remember because of some stupid thought that I couldn't shake that consumed all of my energy from the inside out.  Someone once told me those things are the black holes in our lives.  They consume energy at a terrible rate, and don't let it to go the areas of our life where it should be.

One of the best parts of life is getting to a stage where you can look back and see where you have been and how much you have grown.  I don't really know what caused it, I guess it was a series of events more than one specific one, but I do know that I feel like my center or gravity is shifting and all my parts are getting pulled into a new orbit.  I don't know yet if it was creation or collision, but I do know this new system has a lot less black holes.


The Buried Life is a show that follows 4 boys from Canada as they try to complete their own list of 100 things to do before they die.  It's pretty impressive, some of the things they pull off.  It really goes to show that with the right attitude, good friends, and faith in yourself and your life you can accomplish some pretty amazing things.  
I would recommend checking it out if you haven't already.






This is my bucket list (yeah I borrowed some from TBL boys):
 including some things I have already accomplished

  1. scream at the top of my lungs
  2. see a u.f.o
  3. go to an observatory
  4. hold a baby koala 
  5. learn to sail
  6. scuba dive
  7. sing the national anthem to a packed stadium.
  8. learn to sing...
  9. go on a blind date
  10. speed dating
  11. festival of Holi 
  12. land a 180 on a snowboard
  13. land a 360 on a snowboard
  14. learn to wake-board
  15. see the kangaroos in australia
  16. see the leaning tower of pisa
  17. throw coins in the trevi fountain
  18. return to rome
  19. eat gilatto in italy
  20. eat a crepe in france
  21. kiss somebody on campus
  22. kiss in the rain
  23. serve a mission for my church
  24. join the peace corps
  25. spend a night in jail
  26. fall in love
  27. compete in a dance battle
  28. be in a riot
  29. have my music on the radio
  30. be part of a protest
  31. get married
  32. be a mom
  33. produce an underground newspaper at my college
  34. get a 4.0 one semester
  35. have my music on the radio
  36. accept a dare
  37. hitch hike
  38. cross country road trip
  39. be on the amazing race
  40. make a toast at a strangers wedding
  41. be a sign-holder for a local business
  42. moon the moon
  43. skinny dip
  44. streak
  45. be homeless
  46. get dread locks
  47. visit all 50 states
  48. go to canada
  49. graduate from college
  50. sleep under the stars. no tent
  51. learn to drive stick
  52. have a bangin' body
  53. make an EP/album
  54. ride an elephant in india
  55. visit an ashram
  56. learn to meditate
  57. break a world record
  58. walk across the golden gate bridge
  59. DJ at a club/party
  60. Ghost ride the whip
  61. ride a segway
  62. get a speeding ticket
  63. get handcuffed
  64. get breathalyzed
  65. give a talk
  66. teach someone to do something
  67. celebrate the new year in NYC
  68. be published
  69. throw a dart at a map and travel there
  70. couch surf
  71. visit all 7 continents
  72. get a modeling gig
  73. learn to bar-tend
  74. teach someone how to do something
  75. experience a lock in
  76. have to stay somewhere strange over night due to weather
  77. say "yes" to everything for a week
  78. see the pyramids in Egypt
  79. go to a futbol game in spain
  80. cross country road-trip
  81. send a message in a bottle
  82. go to hollywood
  83. help build a house
  84. volunteer for make-a-wish
  85. go to seattle and see the troll from 10 things I hate about you
  86. go to portland
  87. be a witness to a crime and be questioned about it
Basically, it all boils down to this: What do you want to do before you die?

go big or go home. There is no point in living a half-assed life.